After seven (!) years of thinking about and studying elegance, I’ve come to a number of conclusions. Today’s is this: elegance  and whimsy have a difficult time coexisting.

Feeling extremely puppyish as I am these days, the choice to wear the Hermès tie with the rabbit, pig, cat, dog, goat and monkey faces seemed a fine idea for a sunny Friday. Besides, I had just picked it up when the puppy marked my closet floor, mercifully missing my suede loafers, which interrupted my train of thought. On went the tie.

But now that I think about it, I can’t recall seeing those beacons of elegance whom we all worship wearing whimsical neckwear. Fred Astaire may have tied his tie around his waist, but it was a regimental stripe or small polka dot.

Now I’m all for what ADG would call “fuzziness” in dress. I like my loud socks (“Jeeves is notoriously hidebound in the matter of leg wear,” said Wooster.) I like this tie and the one with the leaping hare and the green monkey one, too. Certain horsey occasions find me sporting my terrier rep tie with tweeds. My pocket square drawer is a riot of pattern and color. But elegance requires restraint, a resistance to the idea of calling attention to any one element of your rig in pursuit of a harmonious whole.

Cary Grant played around with wearing a bow tie. Once.

Just a thought for those of you contemplating casual Friday.

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4 Responses to The Resistance

  1. Todd Kunz says:

    I know your article was about your tie, but that pocket square is intriguing as well. It looks like a mild cream color with a light blue or purple border. I love it. Actually, your entire outfit looks wonderful. Thanks for your continued encouragement towards sartorial excellence.
    Todd Kunz

  2. Douglas Webber says:

    “…elegance requires restraint” I heartily agree! My blazer sports simple horn buttons as brass buttons seemed too school-boyish. Also, I was never mistaken for a member of the Royal Navy so away the buttons went. Tried a Hermes tie or three for visits to Saratoga Springs during the season but felt like a fool. Besides, dignified attire is slimming. I hope.
    Douglas, Philadelphia

  3. Douglas, I’ve done both. I do like my gold buttons on the DB, but on my unconstructed blazers horn takes the day. I was so distracted by the beauty of the handcarved back of one today that I forgot to disengage my parking brake as I backed out of the garage… .

  4. Hi Todd, thanks! The square is an old one of my father’s. Linen. I imagine it is starting to yellow a bit with age. The border is sky blue.

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